Explaining to Family and Friends What it is You Do

The average professional has become more informed in recent years about online marketing, the concepts, and the buzzwords. So while it may be becoming easier to explain it to those people, family members and those you only see around the holidays can be a different story altogether. 

While it might be simple to talk about online marketing activities in general, how do you explain things like, affiliate marketing, blogging, video marketing, email marketing, search engine marketing, pay per click marketing, or social media marketing?

What about, how you make money?

Personally, I’ve found this a challenge over the years, so I threw together some ideas I thought I’d share, and invite you to chime in with your own.

Explaining to Family and Friends What it is You Do

One of the reasons face to face events like BlogWorld, Affiliate Summit, and JV Alert are so successful is they serve as sanity checks for those who attend. It’s nice when you go to an event and a set of assumptions are in place. People you meet may not be in the same area of specialty you are, but they often understand the concepts of said specialty. From my own experience, translating what I do, or what Internet Marketing is to those with little or no familiarity is no easy task.

The Approach

Make things as simple as possible.

Suggested Responses

These are things you can say to those who want to learn more of what you do when not at holiday parties, carving up large birds, or watching football games.

All descriptions below assume white hat marketing tactics.

Internet Marketing in General - I make it easier for Internet users to find products and services they are looking for.

Responses for Internet Marketing Specialties

affiliate marketing described

Affiliate Marketing – I act as an independent commissions only sales rep for products sold on the Internet.

Blog Marketing - I share ideas with others by writing about it and publishing it on websites.

video marketing explained

Video Marketing - I post videos online to share ideas and create interest in various products or services.

Email Marketing - I send email about specific information to people who’ve requested it.

search engine marketing explainedSearch Engine Marketing - I work with sites like Google to help Internet searchers find what they are looking for.

Pay Per Click Marketing - I create advertisements that are posted on the Internet introducing people to products and services. 

Social Media Marketing -
 I make connections online through sites like Facebook with people who might be a fit for the products and services I offer.

So…How Do You Make Money?

At this point, if I haven’t lost them entirely. They might ask the next logical question. 

Clients pay me to help them do Internet Marketing [or insert specialty] better.

Your answer may vary greatly depending on where you fit in the chain of online marketing. In offering any of these as a service to clients, it’s an easy answer, clients pay me to help them do Internet Marketing [or insert specialty] better. If doing the specialty yourself, it gets a little tricky.

Consider the following.

Affiliate Marketing - I get paid when someone buys a product I introduce or recommend to them.

blog marketing explainedBlog Marketing - There are numerous ways, the most common is through advertising, sometimes through affiliate marketing, or newsletter signups on the blog.

Video Marketing - When there are a lot of views, I get advertising revenues, but it isn’t much. Video really helps viewers understand more about me and invites them to my site where they can see my products, ads, or products I recommend. They might even signup for my newsletter.

email marketing explainedEmail Marketing - Advertising in the emails, as well as products I recommend and get commissions for (affiliate marketing).

Search Engine Marketing - By having improved search engine rankings, I get more traffic to my website where people can purchase my products, services, recommendations, or sign up for my newsletter.

Pay Per Click Marketing - Ranking well in the search engines takes hard work and patience, in the meantime, I can increase visibility by paying to have better visibility with advertising. Sometimes ads takes visitors to a webpage, inviting them to buy a product, signup for a newsletter, or a page recommending a product (affiliate marketing). 

social media marketing explained

Social Media Marketing - In connecting with people on social sites, I make friends with some of them, and from time to time introduce them to products and services they might like to buy. They are more likely to buy having known me over time on the social media site, than say someone who recommends a product and doesn’t the person referring them at all.

Family gatherings can be tricky for some depending on their background. In general, people are fascinated with what online marketing is, and how it can create a full time income. These short and simple responses have lead to some amazing conversations, even to things much more meaningful than work.

What are your ideas? How do you respond to these questions of family members or those who unfamiliar with your Internet marketing specialty? Chime in below.

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  • http://twitter.com/optimizethis Keith Brown

    I’ve always had to think up creative ways to explain to relatives what I do, but you put it so much better. Gracias!

    • http://www.MarketingProfessor.com Travis Campbell

      Keith-

      Glad to help. Gracias? How would you say, “I’m a commission only sales rep for websites” in Spanish? :-)

  • http://www.thekillingallotments.wordpress.com Fantastic Dan

    My family, who think the internet is a typewriter tied to a television with string, understand the concept of search engine optimisation thus: I lie to Google to make my clients’ sites look more important than they really are. 

    • http://www.MarketingProfessor.com Travis Campbell

      Dan-

      You da clevuh man. That’s too easy. You can do better no? How about, “I tell Google how awesome my clients websites are, and they believe me!”

      -Travis

  • http://www.emailzipcode.net EmailLister72

    I can’t tell you how many times a day I tell people I got a new job with an online marketing agency… First question they ask is “so what exactly do you do over there?”….. and i can tell them as in depth as possible what it is I do but unless you know about the business, i find people lost and confused.

  • http://www.education4military.com Joe_Cool

    Great tips! Now I don’t have to look at a sea of dumbfounded faces on Thanksgiving :)

    • http://www.MarketingProfessor.com Travis Campbell

      Uhhh, no guarantees, but here’s hoping it moves things in the right direction Joe. :-)

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    i totally agree that to tell people something about marketing is really difficult because the concept or marketing in their minds is very little. They only know about phone marketing. But now marketing is totally change in this digital global world.

  • Kyla Simms

    I actually enjoy the mystery of it all. It makes me feel good to be apart of something new, phenomenal, and elite. Most people in my family have limited beliefs so trying to explain something so great would only sound like a scam to them. However, my lifestyle speaks for itself, while they’re all complaining about unemployment, I am planning a trip to the Caribbean just for fun. 

    • http://www.MarketingProfessor.com Travis Campbell

      Well said Kyla. Family generally wants what’s best, they sometimes have an odd way of communicating it. :-)

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    I like your writing style and way of explanation,thanks for sharing this article.

  • Sourabh

    I invested lot of my free brainstorming time to decide about it since I started working online as a freelancer project worker 7 years back. What I basically say is : I am a self employed individual doing project works online, over the Internet for people around the world. I have found out that people in my place can related to this professional identity easily for last 2-3 years. Though, it was not a familiar scenario even 5 years back.

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